Love Quote by Aidan Chambers
““No, but still, the fact is, at least this is how it seems to me, everybody has to learn about it [love] from scratch for themselves. And we all make the same mistakes time and again while we're learning.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Dreaming, by Aidan Chambers, 1982
People must discover love through personal experience, repeatedly making similar errors as they grow.
In simple terms: Love is learned alone, with repeated mistakes.
Embrace learning from each mistake.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- first relationships
- breakups
- self‑reflection
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What patterns repeat in your love life?
- How can you break the cycle?
Learning alone can be isolating and painful.