Children Quote by Aidan Chambers
““I’ve always been a slow learner in some areas of my life.mostly the areas known as myself. Or maybe I should say ‘selves.’because the fact is, I’ve never, even as a child, felt I’m only one self, only one person. I’ve always felt I’m quite a few more than one. For example, there’s my jokey self, there’s my morose and fed-up self,there’s my lewd and disgusting self. There’s my clever-clogs self, and my fading-violet-who-cant-make-up-her-mind-about-anything self. There’s my untidy-clothes-everywhere-all-over-my-room self, and my manically tidy self when I want my room to be minimalist and Zen to the nth degree. There’s my confidant, arrogant self and my polite and reasonable and good listener self. There’s my self-righteous self and my wickedly bad self, my flaky self and my bsentimental self. There are selfs I like and selfs I don’t like.there’s my little-girl selfnwhonlikes to play silly games and there’s my old-woman self when I’m quite sure I’m eighty and edging towards geriatric. The self I show in action at any moment depends on where I am, who I’m with, the circumstances of the situation and the mood I’m in.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Dream Catcher, Aidan Chambers, 1995
People contain multiple selves that shift with context, mood, and relationships, creating a fluid identity.
In simple terms: Identity is many selves, changing with context.
Key Takeaway
Accept and integrate your varied selves.
Themes
identity
self‑concept
fluidity
context
Mood
introspective
empathetic
Type
literary
inspirational
When to use this quote
- personal growth
- therapy
- role‑playing
- team dynamics
- creative writing
Key Concepts
psychology
philosophy
literature
Questions to Reflect On
- Which self guides you most often?
- How can you harmonize conflicting selves?
A Different Perspective
Fragmented selves may cause inner conflict and indecision.
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