Knowing that your parents are okay makes you feel secure in the world. — Rachel Simmons Feel Copy Share Image
The Internet foments outrageous behavior in part because it is a 'gray area' for social interactions. — Rachel Simmons Behavior Copy Share Image
As parents, we must be mindful that our actions are matching our words. — Rachel Simmons Matching Copy Share Image
Girls who use jokes to be nasty are often hiding other feelings they are struggling to express. — Rachel Simmons Feelings Copy Share Image
Harassment is one of puberty's darkest, most unreported rites of passage. — Rachel Simmons Darkest Copy Share Image
There is no gesture more devastating than the back turning away. — Rachel Simmons Bullying Copy Share Image
Be yourself and you will find, who minds doesn't matter and who matters won't mind. — Rachel Simmons Being yourself Copy Share Image
Real body satisfaction starts when you learn to see yourself for more than your weight. — Rachel Simmons Body Copy Share Image
“Many of the most accomplished girls are disconnecting from the truest parts of themselves, sacrificing essential self-knowledge to the pressure of who… — Rachel Simmons Copy Share Image
Small changes lead to big ones. But big changes - trying to become a different person overnight - usually lead to defeat. — Rachel Simmons Big Copy Share Image
Sometimes true girl power means accepting that we are actually vulnerable and even powerless - then figuring out how to adapt and… — Rachel Simmons Adapt Copy Share Image
At the end of the day, most parents have more in common with their teens than they realize. Let's retire the bootstrap… — Rachel Simmons Child Copy Share Image
Our friends are barometers of our own lives: We look to our BFFs to better understand how we're doing ourselves. Our friends… — Rachel Simmons Better Copy Share Image
Classroom discussion is where you learn how to debate an idea and stick with an opinion, even when others don't agree -… — Rachel Simmons Debate Copy Share Image
If smart phones had been around for women in the 1950s, 'The Feminine Mystique' might never have been written. The depression and… — Rachel Simmons 1950s Copy Share Image
In the age of girl power, we're loath to send a message of surrender to our girls. To the contrary: we've doubled… — Rachel Simmons Age Copy Share Image
Reacting to every slight or letdown is neither realistic nor fair; it sends the message that we expect the other person to… — Rachel Simmons Perfect Copy Share Image
Secrecy is hardly new on Planet Girl: as many an eye-rolling boy will tell you, girls excel at eluding the prying questions… — Rachel Simmons Age Copy Share Image
Social media forces girls to bear witness to painful realities of relationship that were previously hidden from view. It is a new… — Rachel Simmons Girl Copy Share Image
In the so-called age of girl power, we have failed to cut loose our most regressive standards of female success - like… — Rachel Simmons Age Copy Share Image
All around me, I see girls forced to become rat racers in the College Application Industrial Complex, the subculture where students must… — Rachel Simmons Education Copy Share Image
What teens share online is dwarfed by what they consume. Pre-Internet, you had to hoof it to the grocery store to find… — Rachel Simmons Celebrity Copy Share Image
The meteoric rise of the 'wellness' industry online has launched an entire industry of fitness celebrities on social media. Millions of followers… — Rachel Simmons Diet Copy Share Image
A healthy friendship is one where you share your true feelings without fearing the end of the relationship. It's also one where… — Rachel Simmons Friendship Copy Share Image
“Shame is a virus that creates paralysis in its hosts. When you're busy telling yourself what a bad person you are, you… — Rachel Simmons Bad person Copy Share Image
These days, the selfie and its main outlet, Instagram, generally come in for much adult loathing. But consider this: The selfie is… — Rachel Simmons Adults Copy Share Image
“...with her self-esteem perilously balanced on her excellence, she could only interpret failure as catastrophic. Lilly shamed herself when she made a… — Rachel Simmons Failure Copy Share Image
Instagram rocks. I love it, and so do the youth I work with and study. — Rachel Simmons I love Copy Share Image
There are no shortcuts to genuine friendship. Relationships are built over time. — Rachel Simmons Friend Copy Share Image
Girls may love movies about fairytale princes, but their most captivating romance is with their friends. — Rachel Simmons Friends Copy Share Image
To defer to someone else's definition of a life well-lived is a Faustian bargain. — Rachel Simmons Bargain Copy Share Image
Being jealous of a friend doesn't mean you hate her or wish her ill. — Rachel Simmons Being Copy Share Image
Silence is deeply woven into the fabric of female experience, — Rachel Simmons Fabric Copy Share Image
When your child believes you really respect what he's feeling, he'll be much more likely to trust you. — Rachel Simmons Children Copy Share Image