“Our favorite stories can be like lovers. Make sense to me, we ask them. Make sense of me. Here, fix these hurting… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
I do believe that we all have these stories inside of us, these scars that we compulsive worry as we do wounds,… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
S&M is just a set of practices that get classified as a single category, when more accurately they are a part of… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
Anyone who makes a life of what they love is a hero to me, and it's important for those people to be… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“The work of love is in building a shared story, and in letting the differences in perception rest easily aside one another.” — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“We kissed for two hours. Eventually, I led him into my bedroom and pulled off both of our shirts. He stopped me.… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
Even though novels were the love of my life, I started off writing poetry. I think because I had a knack for… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
Being celibate was so wonderful. It taught me a lot about love, but even more about my own self outside of love.… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“I want the people I love to do not as I would or have done, but whatever will keep them safe.” — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
Letting go of the cozy stories you've been carrying around is devastating. But there's more room for new stuff after you do it. — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
When you conceal inner reality, this pressure builds. You often don't expose yourself until it reaches extremity, a breaking point, and what emerges is… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
I can only see right in front of me when I'm writing, you know? I never think of it as raw or personal or… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“I have always been afraid to have children. I didn't want to give them the parts of me--the hurtling hunger, the shame--but now I… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“There are still times when he and I fall into our respective labyrinths. I no longer believe that anyone but ourselves can lead us… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
I think we all are born inside of our parents' narratives. We stay there for a good while. We are taught their narratives about… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“Maybe that's all bravery is: when your hunger is greater than your fear. I resist the implication that bravery is noble. I must face… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“I have always enjoyed watching women dress. The appeal isn't sexual. Most girls' first glimpse of private female life is watching their mothers dress… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“It was the first time anyone had broken up with me. It was a thing I had successfully avoided for thirty-two years.” — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
I can still discern people's weaknesses, but it doesn't make me want to exploit them; it makes me want to hug them. — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“There is a moment in your 20s when you know what it means to love rightly, but not how to do it, and then… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
“The labyrinth, after all, is Sarah's creation. She calls upon the Goblin King. And this is the biggest difference between my brother's afflictions and… — Melissa Febos Copy Share Image
