I treat people who write me the way my friends and I all treat each other when we go to each other… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Is it adultery if I'm committing it at one end of a guy and he's committing it at the other end of… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I feel like I'm a compassionate guy, but I also feel if somebody's grip on life or sanity is so tenuous that… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
There's always something new with sex. We lived in a world without Viagra, now we live in a world with Viagra. We… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I'm not good looking. I'm very strange - a very bony face on an enormous skull, and I don't like to be… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Oftentimes, when people write me 4,000-word letters, I write them back and tell them if their problem's that complicated, they probably need… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I don't think that gay and lesbian relationships are identical to heterosexual relationships. I do think that heterosexual weddings, or at least… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I’m searching for some exit poll data from California. I’ll eat my shorts if gay and lesbian voters went for McCain at… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
If sex isn't an important part of your marriage, you can't beef if your wife or husband does this unimportant thing with… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I do know this, though: I’m done pretending that the handful of racist gay white men out there—and they’re out there, and… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
My dad and mom were more like World War II-era parents, even though it was the 1960s, because they were both born… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Pride became this dogma which meant you couldn't criticize anything gay - if you were the least bit critical of gay culture… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Valentine's Day is much more of a holy day of obligation for a guy in a relationship with a woman, because a… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
To be gay is nothing to be proud of. It's in how you are gay that you have something to be proud… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
The right to life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness means that each of us is free to go our own way,… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
If kids got raped at Denny's as often as they get raped at church it would be illegal to take your kids… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Preaching to the choir actually arms the choir with arguments and elevates the choir's discourse. There's a reason the right does it and does… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I get letters every year from women who think Valentine's Day is an empty exercise, but are ironically pretty exercised when their boyfriends neglect… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
And that really captures the difference for the bullied straight kid versus the bullied gay kid, is that the bullied straight kid goes home… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I'm one of those gay people who's constantly reminded of how fortunate I am to live now and not to be Ennis and Jack… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
There's a big mistake the left has made with talking to religious people, which is attempting to talk them out of their interpretations of… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I got picked on a lot, even by teachers too. I liked to listen to musicals and bake, and my homeroom teacher found out… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
