I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
...even if gay marriage were legalized there would still be gay men who didn't want to marry, gay men no other gay… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
If what you want is a life where your homosexuality is not an issue, move, as many have done. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
You want to help gay kids, you have to reach them in middle school and high school, when they're being bullied. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I didn't want kids to think that to be happy, they had to be famous or rich or live in the big… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I started doing drag in Seattle because I started doing my column before I moved here, and then moved here and wanted… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
We've had a culture war roaring away, and the kinds of people who want to abuse and discriminate against gay people who… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
You know, my problem is I cant say no to people, especially people who want to write me checks to do things. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
When you're a writer, you want to try to avoid cliches. Unfortunately, when you're writing about marriage or family, all cliches seem… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I think it's better to have limits. My limits are different from other people's limits. I'm all for freedom, I'm all for… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
One person simply can’t be all things to another person – sexually or otherwise—and unmet needs, unfulfilled desire, and unexplored possibilities are… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
My dad and mom were more like World War II-era parents, even though it was the 1960s, because they were both born… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Valentine's Day is much more of a holy day of obligation for a guy in a relationship with a woman, because a… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Preaching to the choir actually arms the choir with arguments and elevates the choir's discourse. There's a reason the right does it and does… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Bisexuals need to recognize that their being closeted is a huge contributing factor to the hostility they face. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
Really, when it comes to gay rights, there's two wars going on. The first war is political. But the culture war is over. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I get letters every year from women who think Valentine's Day is an empty exercise, but are ironically pretty exercised when their boyfriends neglect… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I'm allergic to dogs, so I couldn't even adopt what gay men typically adopt when they have that maternal gene. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
And that really captures the difference for the bullied straight kid versus the bullied gay kid, is that the bullied straight kid goes home… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I'm one of those gay people who's constantly reminded of how fortunate I am to live now and not to be Ennis and Jack… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I think the best thing for you to do is just live your life. Live a life that's worth living, one where you do… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
There's a big mistake the left has made with talking to religious people, which is attempting to talk them out of their interpretations of… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
The mistake that straight people made was imposing the monogamous expectation on men. Men were never expected to be monogamous. — Dan Savage Copy Share Image
I got picked on a lot, even by teachers too. I liked to listen to musicals and bake, and my homeroom teacher found out… — Dan Savage Copy Share Image