Another day Quote by Aaron Blaylock
““As a young adult I became disenchanted with Valentine’s Day. I’d tell anyone who’d listen that Valentine’s Day was for rotten lovers to make up for their shortcomings and failures throughout the rest of the year. I firmly believed if a man was doing his job and caring for his companion then Valentine’s Day was just another day. It was easy to take such a stance because as a newly married couple we of course had it all figured out. We had plenty of time and energy to heap affection on one another every day and had vowed never to become disconnected like those old fogies no matter what circumstances life had in store for us. Adding to my distaste for Valentine’s Day was the fact that the same dozen roses I’d bought for her the previous week cost $20-$30 dollars more on this love sanctioned day. Overcrowded restaurants offered just one or two Valentine’s meals for a king’s ransom. And last but not least cards failed to provide an adequate expression of my love for her. Valentine’s Day was a needless day for a loving couple who felt no compulsion to share their affections with the masses.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: Personal reflections on Valentine’s Day, 2020
The author argues that Valentine’s Day is unnecessary for couples who already express love daily, viewing it as commercialized and superficial.
In simple terms: Valentine’s Day is seen as a commercial, unnecessary holiday for loving couples.
Focus on everyday affection rather than special dates.
Themes
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When to use this quote
- married life
- gift buying
- restaurant planning
- budgeting
- holiday marketing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you think special occasions enhance or diminish everyday love?
- How does commercial pressure affect personal celebrations?
May overlook the joy some find in shared traditions or societal rituals.