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“When a woman wants me to do anything (my daughter, or not, it doesn't matter), I always insist on knowing why. The oftener you make them rummage their own minds for a reason, the more manageable you will find them in all the relations of life. It isn't their fault (poor wretches!) that they act…” quote by Wilkie Collins
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““When a woman wants me to do anything (my daughter, or not, it doesn't matter), I always insist on knowing why. The oftener you make them rummage their own minds for a reason, the more manageable you will find them in all the relations of life. It isn't their fault (poor wretches!) that they act first and think afterwards; it's the fault of the fools who humour them.””

Wilkie Collins

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Understanding motivations makes people more cooperative and predictable in relationships.

In simple terms: Knowing why helps manage others.

Key Takeaway

Ask why before reacting.

Themes

communication relationships psychology

Mood

thoughtful analytical

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family dynamics
  • workplace conflicts
  • friendship negotiations

Key Concepts

motivation behavioral control

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do you balance curiosity with respect?
  • When is probing too intrusive?
A Different Perspective

People may resist if they feel manipulated.

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