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I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even…

“I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even marry you because I loved you. I married you because you gave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults. And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfect people got married and it was the promise that made the marriage…” quote by Thornton Wilder
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“I didn't marry you because you were perfect. I didn't even marry you because I loved you. I married you because you gave me a promise. That promise made up for your faults. And the promise I gave you made up for mine. Two imperfect people got married and it was the promise that made the marriage. And when our children were growing up, it wasn't a house that protected them; and it wasn't our love that protected them--it was that promise.”

Thornton Wilder

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Marriage thrives on promises and shared commitments, not perfection.

In simple terms: Promises bind imperfect partners.

Key Takeaway

Honor promises, nurture commitment.

Themes

love commitment imperfection family

Mood

reflective emotional

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • weddings
  • parenting
  • family counseling

Key Concepts

promise theory relational dynamics marital resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What promises sustain a relationship?
  • How do you repair broken promises?
A Different Perspective

Promises may be broken, causing hurt.

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