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And if we ourselves have a vocation, if we have not…

“And if we ourselves have a vocation, if we have not betrayed it, if over the years we have continued to love it, to serve it passionately, we are able to keep all sense of ownership out of our love for our children. But if on the other hand we do not have a vocation, or if we have abandoned it or…” quote by Natalia Ginzburg
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““And if we ourselves have a vocation, if we have not betrayed it, if over the years we have continued to love it, to serve it passionately, we are able to keep all sense of ownership out of our love for our children. But if on the other hand we do not have a vocation, or if we have abandoned it or betrayed it out of cynicism or a fear of life, or because of mistaken parental love, or because of some little virtue that exists within us, then we cling to our children as a shipwrecked mariner clings to a tree trunk.””

Natalia Ginzburg

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A true vocation fuels love for children; without it, love becomes possessive.

In simple terms: Vocation sustains healthy love for children.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate your vocation.

Themes

parenting purpose love identity

Mood

thoughtful inspirational

Type

philosophical reflective

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • career choices
  • personal fulfillment
  • parental expectations

Key Concepts

existential purpose psychology of love

Questions to Reflect On

  • What is your true vocation?
  • How does vocation affect your relationships?
A Different Perspective

Finding vocation can be difficult and uncertain.

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