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“I think," said my neighbour, her chin very high in the air (and still spiffed, I am glad to say) "that women who've never married and never had children have missed out on the central experiences of life. They are emotionally crippled." Now what am I supposed to say to that? I ask you. That women…” quote by Joanna Russ
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““I think," said my neighbour, her chin very high in the air (and still spiffed, I am glad to say) "that women who've never married and never had children have missed out on the central experiences of life. They are emotionally crippled." Now what am I supposed to say to that? I ask you. That women who've never won the Nobel Peace Prize have also experienced a serious deprivation? It's like taking candy from a baby; the poor thing isn't allowed to get angry, only catty. I said, "That's rude, and silly," and helped her to mashed potatoes. … "You can't catch a man." "That's why I'll never be abandoned," said I. Fortunately she did not hear me. Did I say taking candy from babies? Rather, eating babies, killing babies, abandoning babies. So sad, so easy.””

Joanna Russ

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker critiques a neighbor’s stereotypical view that women without marriage or children lack essential life experiences and are emotionally deficient.

In simple terms: Criticizes narrow gender expectations and emotional judgments.

Key Takeaway

Challenge assumptions about women's fulfillment.

Themes

gender roles stereotypes emotional health social expectations

Mood

critical ironic thoughtful

Type

philosophical satirical

When to use this quote

  • family discussions
  • gender studies
  • therapy sessions
  • public debates
  • media analysis

Key Concepts

feminism identity social critique

Questions to Reflect On

  • How do societal expectations shape our view of fulfillment?
  • What alternative narratives exist for women’s lives?
A Different Perspective

The quote uses hyperbole and dark humor, which may obscure its serious critique.

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