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“Why should a man marry and have children, study and build a career; why should he invent new techniques, build new institutions, and develop new ideas--when he doubts if there will be a tomorrow which can guarantee the value of human effort? Crucial here for nuclear man is the lack of a sense of…” quote by Henri J.M. Nouwen
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““Why should a man marry and have children, study and build a career; why should he invent new techniques, build new institutions, and develop new ideas--when he doubts if there will be a tomorrow which can guarantee the value of human effort? Crucial here for nuclear man is the lack of a sense of continuity, which is so vital for a creative life. He finds himself part of a nonhistory in which only the sharp moment of the here and now is valuable. For nuclear man life easily becomes a bow whose string is broken and from which no arrow can fly. In his dislocated state he becomes paralyzed. His reactions are not anxiety and joy, which were so much a part of existential man, but apathy and boredom.””

Henri J.M. Nouwen

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Analyzes modern existential angst where lack of continuity leads to apathy and paralysis.

In simple terms: Loss of future vision creates disengagement.

Key Takeaway

Cultivate a sense of continuity for purpose.

Themes

existentialism continuity apathy

Mood

reflective philosophical

Type

existential psychological

When to use this quote

  • career planning
  • long‑term projects
  • personal legacy

Key Concepts

philosophy psychology meaning

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does continuity affect motivation?
  • What practices build a sense of lasting purpose?
A Different Perspective

Some find meaning without future certainty.

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