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Ah, Father! That’s words and only words! Forgive! If he’d…

“Ah, Father! That’s words and only words! Forgive! If he’d not been run over, he’d have come home today drunk and his only shirt dirty and in rags and he’d have fallen asleep like a log, and I should have been sousing and rinsing till daybreak, washing his rags and the children’s and then drying…” quote by Fyodor Dostoevsky
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“Ah, Father! That’s words and only words! Forgive! If he’d not been run over, he’d have come home today drunk and his only shirt dirty and in rags and he’d have fallen asleep like a log, and I should have been sousing and rinsing till daybreak, washing his rags and the children’s and then drying them by the window and as soon as it was daylight I should have been darning them. What’s the use of talking forgiveness! I have forgiven as it is!”

Fyodor Dostoevsky

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

The speaker doubts the value of spoken forgiveness, preferring tangible acts of care and labor over abstract words.

In simple terms: Actions matter more than words of forgiveness.

Key Takeaway

Do deeds, not just words.

Themes

guilt redemption family

Mood

somber introspective

Type

literary psychological

When to use this quote

  • caregiving
  • daily chores
  • family support
  • personal healing

Key Concepts

existentialism pragmatism

Questions to Reflect On

  • Can forgiveness be both spoken and acted?
  • What actions best express remorse?
A Different Perspective

Words can still be powerful; ignoring them may miss emotional healing.

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