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“The secret of pleasing in conversation is not to explain too much everything; to say them half and leave a little for divination is a mark of the good opinion we have of others, and nothing flatters their self-love more.” quote by Francois de La Rochefoucauld
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“The secret of pleasing in conversation is not to explain too much everything; to say them half and leave a little for divination is a mark of the good opinion we have of others, and nothing flatters their self-love more.”

Francois de La Rochefoucauld

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

Good conversation leaves room for mystery, speaking partially and allowing others to infer, which flatters their self‑esteem.

In simple terms: Speak partly, let others fill gaps, boosting their pride.

Key Takeaway

Use suggestion, not over‑explanation.

Themes

communication humility psychology

Mood

reflective analytical

Type

philosophical practical

When to use this quote

  • dinner parties
  • negotiations
  • teaching sessions

Key Concepts

suggestion self‑love conversation etiquette

Questions to Reflect On

  • How much should you reveal?
  • What benefits does mystery bring?
A Different Perspective

Risk of misinterpretation if too vague.

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