“God’s warriors don’t avoid conflict. They fight through it with communication and a positive outlook.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Sometimes, God doesn’t send you into a battle to win it; he sends you to end it.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A quote is not a conversation, but an invitation to change your perspective.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“One of the most important things you can do on this earth is to let people know they are not alone.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When a man plays with your heart it is for one of two reasons: He knows he can or he is undecided.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Sometimes the simplest solution out of conflict is becoming someone’s friend, instead of saying goodbye forever.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Cruel people offer pity when they no longer feel threatened. However, kind people offer compassion and understanding regardless.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The words, I love you, are empty without clarification. Women prefer to be told what they can expect. It is measurable like… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“True saddness is when someone still thinks your the same person after all these years. They brand you because of their own… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When the person you love can't see your love for them beneath the painful things you say when they reject you, remember… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When religious people take the stance that they don’t owe anyone that is hurting closure or answers then God is not winning.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you are standing in the middle of a storm you have two choices: Pray to God that it goes away. Or,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“There are only two ways to live your life. One as if all that matters is to have someone love and accept… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“In order to master compassion, you have to spend time getting to know monsters. When you can do that you will see… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“When you give yourself permission to communicate what matters to you in every situation you will have peace despite rejection or disapproval.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Arrogance is someone claiming to have come to Christ, but they won't spend more than five minutes listening to your journey because… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If a man, who says he loves you, won’t tell you the details of a private conversation between him and another woman… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“They said my solution was foreign because I lived on another planet. It required honesty. It required communication. It required kindness. It… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“If you could do one thing to improve yourself today, it would be this: Rid yourself of bias. If you can do… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“ Silence Never Silence never healed the lonely. Silence never comforted the broken hearted. Silence never saved a life. Silence never won… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Half of the time, the Holy Ghost tries to warn us about certain people that come into our life. The other half… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The Anatomy of Conflict: If there is no communication then there is no respect. If there is no respect then there is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“They say instant communication is not communication at all but merely a frantic, trivial, nerve-wracking bombardment of clichés, threats, fads, fashions, gibberish… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“I write to find strength. I write to become the person that hides inside me. I write to light the way through… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Some people say, “Once you learn to be happy, you won't tolerate being around people who make you feel anything less.” My… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Sometimes the one thing you need for growth is the one thing you are afraid to do.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“You need to forgive people you don't understand; if not, try to understand people you want to forgive.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Money isn't the solution to your problems. It only lets you carry your unhappiness around in style.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“A kind word will never replace the conversation that God has prompted you to repeatedly have.” — shannon l. alder Copy Share Image
“Lack of communication has a way of clipping our wings, which keeps us from flying. When things are left unspoken, we forget… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“The most important thing in communication is hearing what isn't being said. The art of reading between the lines is a life… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Intelligence is not expecting people to understand what your intent is; it is anticipating how it will be perceived.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“To love someone with all of your heart requires reaching them where they are with the only words they can understand.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share Image
“Don’t waste your time trying to explain yourself to people that are committed to misunderstanding you. Instead, commit your time to explaining who they… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“God has a way of picking a “nobody” and turning their world upside down, in order to create a “somebody” that will remove the… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Mental illness is not something you misunderstand in this era. Get educated because bias is no different than racism.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“It takes a female to have a baby, It takes a woman to raise a child, It takes a mother to raise them correctly,… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“God is going to send you someone that will rescue you. Then one day you will rescue them in return and together your story… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after it and… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“It is not the self respect and pride that you take with you, but the heritage you leave behind to your children that matters.… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“The art of being wise is the art of knowing that solutions don’t come from individuals, but rather experiences.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“If you have feelings for someone, let them know. It doesn’t matter if they can be in your life or not. Maybe, it is… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“After every storm, there is a rainbow. If you have eyes, you will find it. If you have wisdom, you will create it. If… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Don’t ever feel bad that someone couldn’t give you all of their heart. Be grateful that you can take the least complicated part of… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“I don't know why anyone would be scared of a homeless person. The truly scary people are all the murder mystery writers. They spend… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“Until you have stood in another woman’s stilettos, you will never begin to know the year of pain she felt breaking them in.” — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were deeply hurt… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share
“ The Prodigal Son They gave the deep end of their heart--a hue of crimson red, They whispered their desire and offered up their… — Shannon L. Alder Copy Share