Letting go Quotes by Shannon L. Alder

“Love is proved the moment you let go of someone because they need you to.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Chasing a person doesn’t give you value or build values in you. You earn your value by chasing morality and practicing dignity.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“When you think this pain is all you deserve, you are right. You are the only one that can decide how long…

— Shannon L. Alder

“Worry does not keep it from raining tomorrow, but it does keep it from being sunny today.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“You can’t selectively numb your anger, any more than you can turn off all lights in a room, and still expect to…

— Shannon L. Alder

“The best don’t stick around when you treat them poorly, only the desperate do.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Being different is a revolving door in your life where secure people enter and insecure exit.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Words matter, but what matters more than words is forgiveness and compassion.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Your heart’s strength is measured by how hard it holds on. Your self worth and faith is measured by finally letting go.…

— Shannon L. Alder

“If you spend your time hoping someone will suffer the consequences for what they did to your heart, then you're allowing them…

— Shannon L. Alder

“The secret to life is to have no fear. When you can let go of what others think about you, how something…

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“Every woman that finally figured out her worth, has picked up her suitcases of pride and boarded a flight to freedom, which…

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“The true definition of mental illness is when the majority of your time is spent in the past or future, but rarely…

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“Chasing a man is not winning. The only thing you win is the loss of your dignity. Confidence is knowing your value,…

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“In the end, a lack of compatibility is what ruins relationships. You can't force someone to be an eagle when they are…

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“You can be bit in the leg by a rattlesnake and seek help to heal your wound, or you can run after…

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“Every person with ADHD already knows that destination addiction is part of their disorder. However, if it doesn’t have a positive outlet,…

— Shannon L. Alder

“If you could do one thing to improve yourself today, it would be this: Rid yourself of bias. If you can do…

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“Some people can’t be in your life because they don’t have the power to help you improve it. That doesn’t mean you…

— Shannon L. Alder

“It is so simple, yet so hard for some people to do. If you want someone out of your life then you…

— Shannon L. Alder

“A competitive and insecure woman will tell you that “true love” is never giving up on someone you're in love with. A…

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“It is a strange thing that the human species can only go three days without water and three weeks without food, before…

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“I don't understand women that call themselves a "bitch". It doesn't empower a woman. Rather, it reveals to everyone that you were…

— Shannon L. Alder

“The source to low self-esteem is the lack of control you feel you have in your life. If you spend your life…

— Shannon L. Alder

“If you want to know if someone was meant to be in your future, then remove all the worldly things about them…

— Shannon L. Alder

“The clock ticks; the taunting rhythm serving as a reminder that forward is the only way we can go. The mechanical heartbeat…

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“You will never be able to end any battle if the people involved are unable to see their own hypocrisy, or how…

— Shannon L. Alder

“Forget what hurt you in the past, but never forget what it taught you. However, if it taught you to hold onto…

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“It is not lies or a lack of loyalty that ends a relationship. It is the agonizing truth that one person feels…

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“The more you talk about it, rehash it, rethink it, cross analyze it, debate it, respond to it, get paranoid about it,…

— Shannon L. Alder

“Dear Child, Sometimes on your travel through hell, you meet people that think they are in heaven because of their cleverness and…

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“If you don't make a conscious effort to visualize, who you are and what you want to become in life, then you…

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“Every relationship that has hit a crossroads has asked, “What is it that you want from me?”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Dignity will only happen when you realize that having someone in your life doesn’t validate your worth.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“God’s warriors don’t avoid conflict. They fight through it with communication and a positive outlook.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Nothing changes until people decide to do the things they must, in order to bring about peace.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Perspective is as simple as answering this question: If I had 5 months to live would I experience this problem differently?”

— Shannon L. Alder

“No boundary or barrier surrounds the heart of a person that loves their self and others.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“The only real battle in life is between hanging on and letting go.”

— Shannon L. Alder

“Sensitive people either love deeply or they regret deeply. There really is no middle ground because they live in passionate extremes.”

— Shannon L. Alder