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“This estranged me. And I was still more estranged by what he said next; for, having inquired what the story I was then writing was about, and I having answered—reluctantly and apologetically, because down on the flat he had seemed so strictly principled,—that I was very sorry but I was afraid it…” quote by Elizabeth von Arnim
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““This estranged me. And I was still more estranged by what he said next; for, having inquired what the story I was then writing was about, and I having answered—reluctantly and apologetically, because down on the flat he had seemed so strictly principled,—that I was very sorry but I was afraid it was about adultery, he called out, with horrifying heartiness, “The finest sport in the world!” What sort of a guest, I asked myself, shocked, was this for a widow, the sole protector of a set of orphans, to have got herself involved in? But there was worse to come; for quite soon, instead of helping me with the uproarious children, he left off even pretending to be interested in them, and began, to my concern, to concentrate on me. In other words, he left off being just a guest, and turned into a suitor. I know””

Elizabeth von Arnim

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A narrator describes a disturbing encounter where a guest, initially appearing principled, reveals predatory intentions, turning a social visit into a personal threat.

In simple terms: A seemingly polite guest becomes a dangerous suitor.

Key Takeaway

Beware of hidden motives in acquaintances.

Themes

trust deception danger

Mood

cautious anxious

Type

warning critical

When to use this quote

  • social gatherings
  • family protection
  • personal safety
  • relationship boundaries

Key Concepts

psychology power dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signs might indicate a guest’s ulterior motives?
  • How can one protect vulnerable family members?
A Different Perspective

Not all threats are obvious; subtle cues matter.

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