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“It's a simple quality of human nature that people prefer to choose to do things rather than be ordered to do them. In fact, as soon as you tell me I have to do something - give a speech, attend a banquet, go to Cannes - I immediately start looking for ways to avoid doing it.” quote by Brian Grazer
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“It's a simple quality of human nature that people prefer to choose to do things rather than be ordered to do them. In fact, as soon as you tell me I have to do something - give a speech, attend a banquet, go to Cannes - I immediately start looking for ways to avoid doing it.”

Brian Grazer

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

People resist directives and favor autonomy; being told what to do triggers avoidance behavior.

In simple terms: People dislike being ordered and try to avoid it.

Key Takeaway

Offer choice to increase cooperation.

Themes

autonomy motivation behavior resistance

Mood

frustrated defensive

Type

motivational psychological

When to use this quote

  • workplace meetings
  • social events
  • personal tasks
  • volunteer projects

Key Concepts

psychology self-determination theory reactance

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you frame directives to feel like choices?
  • What incentives reduce avoidance?
A Different Perspective

If the task is inherently undesirable, choice may not improve compliance.

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