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“He agreed with the captain of a New York sloop for my passage, under the notion of my being a young acquaintance of his that had got a naughty girl with child, whose friends would compel me to marry her, and therefore I could not appear or come away publicly.” quote by Benjamin Franklin
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““He agreed with the captain of a New York sloop for my passage, under the notion of my being a young acquaintance of his that had got a naughty girl with child, whose friends would compel me to marry her, and therefore I could not appear or come away publicly.””

Benjamin Franklin

About This Quote

This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.

A young man avoids public marriage due to a scandalous situation, using a pretense to delay commitment.

In simple terms: He delays marriage by claiming a scandal.

Key Takeaway

Use honesty to resolve personal dilemmas.

Themes

honesty social norms marriage reputation deception

Mood

reflective cautionary

Type

historical philosophical

When to use this quote

  • family negotiations
  • legal disputes
  • public reputation management
  • personal crises

Key Concepts

ethics social pressure personal responsibility

Questions to Reflect On

  • What are ethical ways to handle awkward obligations?
  • How does reputation affect personal choices?
A Different Perspective

Deception can damage trust if discovered.

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