The friendship between a man and a woman which does not…
“The friendship between a man and a woman which does not lead to marriage or desire for marriage may be a life long experience of the greatest value to themselves and to all their circle of acquaintance and of activity; but for this type of friendship both a rare man and a rare woman are needed. Perhaps it should be added that either the man or the woman thus deeply bound in lifelong friendship who seeks marriage must find a still rarer man or woman to wed, to make such a three cornered comradeship a permanent success”
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
A deep, non‑marital friendship between a man and a woman is rare and highly valuable, but sustaining it may require a third partner for those seeking marriage.
In simple terms: Rare cross‑gender friendships are valuable but need a third partner for marriage seekers.
Key Takeaway
Cherish such friendships, recognize their limits.
Themes
friendship
gender
marriage
rarity
value
Mood
reflective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
advice
When to use this quote
- college life
- workplace
- community groups
- long‑term projects
Key Concepts
social norms
emotional intimacy
lifelong bonds
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance deep friendship with romantic expectations?
- What qualities make a rare friendship thrive?
A Different Perspective
Such friendships can be socially misunderstood or lead to jealousy.