I should like to have friends, I confess. I do not suppose…
““I should like to have friends, I confess. I do not suppose I ever shall. But there have been moments when I have realized what friendship might be. Rare moments - but never forgotten. Friendship is a binding, as solemn as marriage. We take each other for life, through everything - forever. But it’s not enough to say we will do it. I think, myself, it is pride which makes friendship most difficult. To submit, to bow down to the other is not easy, but it must be done if one is to really understand the being of the other. Friendship isn’t merging. One doesn’t thereupon become a shadow and one remain a substance. Yet, it is terribly solemn - frightening, even.””
About This Quote
This interpretation was drafted with AI assistance. It is one reading of the quote, not the author's own explanation.
Friendship requires humility and willingness to submit, not merging identities, and is a solemn, enduring bond.
In simple terms: True friendship needs humility and respect.
Key Takeaway
Practice humility, respect others fully.
Themes
friendship
humility
respect
Mood
introspective
thoughtful
Type
philosophical
inspirational
When to use this quote
- marriage
- longterm friendships
- teamwork
- conflict resolution
Key Concepts
existential
psychology
Questions to Reflect On
- What does humility look like in your friendships?
- Can you be vulnerable without losing self?
A Different Perspective
Pride can hinder openness; balance self-worth with humility.