Books Quote by William Wycherley
“Mistresses are like books; if you pore upon them too much, they doze you and make you unfit for company; but if used discreetly, you are the fitter for conversation by em.”
About This Quote
Source Play: The Country Wife, 1675
Treating relationships as objects to be examined can dull their vitality; using discretion preserves their value for social interaction.
In simple terms: Overanalyzing partners harms connection; subtle use keeps them engaging.
Key Takeaway
Balance curiosity with respect.
Themes
relationships
communication
social dynamics
Mood
play
cautious
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- dating
- friendship
- networking
Key Concepts
objectification
discretion
self‑awareness
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you maintain intrigue without over‑examining?
- When is discretion more valuable than openness?
A Different Perspective
Excessive scrutiny can lead to mistrust.
