Accommodate Quote by William Ury
““3A trap”: we attack, we accommodate (in other words, give in), or we avoid altogether,””
About This Quote
Source Book: Getting to Yes, William Ury, 1991
In conflict, you can confront, concede, or withdraw; each choice shapes outcomes.
In simple terms: Three ways to handle conflict: attack, accommodate, avoid.
Key Takeaway
Choose the approach that preserves relationships and goals.
Themes
conflict resolution
strategies
communication
Mood
analytical
pragmatic
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- business meetings
- personal disputes
- diplomacy
- team dynamics
Key Concepts
negotiation
choice theory
Questions to Reflect On
- When is avoidance the best tactic?
- How does accommodation affect power dynamics?
A Different Perspective
Avoidance may let issues fester, harming trust.
