Able Quote by William Nicholson
“Here I am going to say something which may come as a bit of a shock. God doesn't necessarily want us to be happy. He wants us to be lovable. Worthy of love. Able to be loved by Him. We don't start off being all that lovable, if we're honest. What makes people hard to love? Isn't it what is commonly called selfishness? Selfish people are hard to love because so little love comes out of them.”
About This Quote
God values our capacity to love and be loved more than our happiness; selfishness blocks love.
In simple terms: Love, not happiness, is divine aim.
Cultivate love, not just happiness.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- spiritual practice
- mental health
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What habits foster self‑love?
- How can you transform selfishness into generosity?
Self‑love is also needed to give love.