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“To mind being disliked by a woman you don’t desire and are not married to is yet another serious failure of common sense.” quote by Wendell Berry
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“To mind being disliked by a woman you don’t desire and are not married to is yet another serious failure of common sense.”

Wendell Berry

About This Quote

Source Essay: The Unsettling of America, 1977

Seeking affection from an undesired, unattainable woman is a foolish waste of emotional energy.

In simple terms: Chasing the wrong love is foolish.

Key Takeaway

Focus on meaningful relationships.

Themes

relationships self‑esteem wisdom

Mood

thoughtful pragmatic

Type

advice reflective

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • friendship
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

unrequited love emotional labor

Questions to Reflect On

  • What relationships truly enrich your life?
  • How can you redirect that energy?
A Different Perspective

It ignores the value of platonic connections.

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