Admired Quote by Wataru Watari
““I like myself. I have never once hated myself. My high specs, my half decent looks, My pessimistic, realist point of view. I don't hate any of it at all. But, for the first time, I feel like I could hate myself. The Yukino Yukinoshita I've seen all this time was always beautiful, pure, Never told a lie, and could stand on her own feet even- With nobody to lean on. I'm pretty sure I always admired her for that. I forced my own expectations and ideals on her, Let myself think I understood her, and let myself be dissapointed. I cautioned myself against this time and time again, But I still haven't gotten over it. Even Yukino Yukinoshita tells lies. I couldn't even accept such an obvious fact, And for that...I...hate myself — Hachiman Hikigaya””
About This Quote
Source Novel: My Youth Romantic Comedy Is Wrong, As I Expected, Vol. 2, 2011
The narrator admires an idealized character, struggles with self‑acceptance, and confronts the painful realization that even admired figures have flaws.
In simple terms: Self‑esteem challenged by idealization and disappointment.
Key Takeaway
Accept imperfections in self and others.
Themes
self‑esteem
idealization
disappointment
identity
growth
psychology
Mood
introspective
conflicted
thoughtful
Type
analysis
reflection
personal
When to use this quote
- relationships
- self‑reflection
- media consumption
- character analysis
- personal growth
Key Concepts
self‑concept
projection
emotional conflict
personal development
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you reconcile admiration with realism?
- What steps help you accept your own flaws?
A Different Perspective
Idealization can obscure reality; self‑criticism may be harsh.
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