Skip to content

Kissed Quote by Warsan Shire

“On the night of our secret wedding when he held me in his mouth like a promise until his tongue grew tired and fell asleep, I lay awake to keep the memory alive. In the morning I begged him back to bed. Running late, he kissed my ankles and left. I stayed like a secret in his bed for days until…” quote by Warsan Shire
Download Open image
““On the night of our secret wedding when he held me in his mouth like a promise until his tongue grew tired and fell asleep, I lay awake to keep the memory alive. In the morning I begged him back to bed. Running late, he kissed my ankles and left. I stayed like a secret in his bed for days until his mother found me. I showed her my gold ring, I stood in front of her naked, waved my hands in her face. She sank to the floor and cried. At his funeral, no one knew my name. I sat behind his aunts, they sucked on dates soaked in oil. The last thing he tasted was me.””

Warsan Shire

About This Quote

Source Poem: Unpublished work, 2010s

Describes an intense, secretive, and tragic intimacy, blending eroticism with loss and cultural conflict.

In simple terms: A secret, intense love ends in tragedy.

Key Takeaway

Reflect on hidden desires and their consequences.

Themes

love death secrecy culture identity

Mood

somber intense

Type

poetic confessional

When to use this quote

  • personal relationships
  • cultural oppression
  • memory preservation

Key Concepts

intimacy power dynamics grief

Questions to Reflect On

  • What does secrecy reveal about power?
  • How does cultural context shape intimacy?
A Different Perspective

The narrative may romanticize harmful power imbalances.

2.5 out of 5 (9 ratings)

More by Warsan Shire

Explore all 89 Warsan Shire quotes

More Kissed quotes

Browse all 2,545 Kissed quotes