Love Quote by Vera Nazarian
““Don't look for a soul mate. Make one -- out of the complex fabric of the human being already with you. Instructions are never included. They vary with the strength of your ability to see, the measure of your selective blindness, the limits of your mercy, and the intensity of your desire.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Life of the Mind by Vera Nazarian, 2015
True partnership is built by shaping and deepening the existing relationship, not by searching for a perfect match; love grows through effort, perception, compassion, and desire.
In simple terms: Create love by working on the person you already have.
Key Takeaway
Invest in growth, not fantasy.
Themes
relationships
personal development
love
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
advice
philosophical
When to use this quote
- marriage
- long‑term partnership
- friendship
- team collaboration
Key Concepts
attachment theory
self-awareness
empathy
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you actively nurture your current relationship?
- What blind spots affect your perception of love?
A Different Perspective
Idealizing a soulmate can overlook real challenges and lead to disappointment.
