Family Quote by Torrey Peters
“I used to feel ashamed to want a family, because I'd read lots of queer theory that says, 'The family is the problem.' I think it's okay to want one.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: The New York Times, 2022
The author reconciles personal desire for family with queer theory that critiques traditional family structures, affirming it’s normal to want a family.
In simple terms: Wanting a family is natural despite critical theories.
Key Takeaway
Accept your desires, seek supportive community.
Themes
identity
family
queer theory
self‑acceptance
Mood
reflective
hopeful
Type
personal
social
When to use this quote
- dating
- family planning
- support groups
- therapy
- community building
Key Concepts
social norms
personal desire
cultural critique
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you balance personal longing with critical perspectives?
- What support helps you feel safe in wanting a family?
A Different Perspective
Some may argue that family structures perpetuate oppression, which can complicate personal choices.
