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“First of all, I love women. But I lust after beautiful women in the way that I lust after a beautiful piece of sculpture - this will probably get me in trouble - or a beautiful car. I believe everyone's on a sliding scale of sexuality. There are moments where I am sexually attracted to women. But…” quote by Tom Ford
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“First of all, I love women. But I lust after beautiful women in the way that I lust after a beautiful piece of sculpture - this will probably get me in trouble - or a beautiful car. I believe everyone's on a sliding scale of sexuality. There are moments where I am sexually attracted to women. But it doesn't overpower my first impulse; my lust for them is the same as my lust for beauty in all things.”

Tom Ford

About This Quote

Source Interview: The New Yorker, “Tom Ford on Style and Desire”, 2021

He equates sexual attraction to women with admiration for aesthetic objects, suggesting desire is a broader appreciation of beauty rather than purely erotic.

In simple terms: Lust for women is likened to lust for beautiful things.

Key Takeaway

Recognize desire as a response to aesthetic appeal.

Themes

beauty desire sexuality artistic appreciation

Mood

reflective critical

Type

philosophical observational

When to use this quote

  • fashion design
  • personal relationships
  • art criticism
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

aestheticism objectification psychology

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does viewing people as objects affect relationships?
  • Can aesthetic appreciation coexist with genuine intimacy?
A Different Perspective

May overlook emotional depth and consent concerns.

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