Adults Quote by Thomas Szasz
“Only idiots and infants need things. The language of needs is the native tongue of socialists, therapists, and paternalists of all sorts and is addressed to needy dependents. The language of wants is spoken by self-respecting adults and is addressed to other self-respecting adults.”
About This Quote
Source Book: The Myth of Mental Illness, Thomas Szasz, 1961
Distinguishes between basic needs, which imply dependence, and higher-level wants, which reflect autonomy and mutual respect among adults.
In simple terms: Needs imply dependence; wants imply autonomy.
Key Takeaway
Choose language that respects adult agency.
Themes
autonomy
respect
communication
politics
individualism
Mood
assertive
critical
reflective
Type
philosophical
political
When to use this quote
- personal relationships
- workplace negotiations
- public policy debates
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
self‑determination
power dynamics
social responsibility
Questions to Reflect On
- How does your language shape power relations?
- When is it appropriate to acknowledge needs?
A Different Perspective
May overlook essential basic needs that require collective support.
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