Failure Quote by Thomas Hardy
““It is a difficult question, my friends, for any young man-- that question I had to grapple with, and which thousands are weighing at the present moment in these uprising times-- whether to follow uncritically the track he finds himself in, without considering his aptness for it, or to consider what his aptness or bent may be, and re-shape his course accordingly. I tried to do the latter, and I failed. But I don't admit that my failure proved my view to be a wrong one, or that my success would have made it a right one; though that's how we appraise such attempts nowadays--I mean, not by their essential soundness, but by their accidental outcomes. If I had ended by becoming like one of these gentlemen in red and black that we saw dropping in here by now, everybody would have said: 'See how wise that young man was, to follow the bent of his nature!' But having ended no better than I began they say: 'See what a fool that fellow was in following a freak of his fancy!””
About This Quote
Source Novel: Tess of the d'Urbervilles, 1891
The quote reflects on the dilemma of following one's innate inclinations versus critically assessing suitability, and how society judges success or failure by outcomes rather than reasoning.
In simple terms: Choosing a path blindly or thoughtfully, and being judged by results not intent.
Reflect before committing; accept outcomes wisely.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- career decisions
- personal relationships
- educational paths
- political activism
- creative pursuits
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you prioritize intention or result?
- How does society influence your choices?
The emphasis on outcome over process can discourage honest self‑assessment.