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Career Quote by Terry McMillan

“Being a lifetime wife and mother has afforded me the luxury of having multiple and even simultaneous careers: I've been a chauffeur. A chef. An interior decorator. A landscape architect, as well as a gardener. I've been a painter. A furniture restorer. A personal shopper. A veterinarian's…” quote by Terry McMillan
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““Being a lifetime wife and mother has afforded me the luxury of having multiple and even simultaneous careers: I've been a chauffeur. A chef. An interior decorator. A landscape architect, as well as a gardener. I've been a painter. A furniture restorer. A personal shopper. A veterinarian's assistant and sometimes the veterinarian. I've been an accountant, a banker and on occasion, a broker. I've been a beautician. A map. A psychic. Santa Claus. The Tooth Fairy. The T.V. Guide. A movie reviewer. An angel. God. A nurse and a nursemaid. A psychiatrist and psychologist. Evangelist. For a long time I have felt like I inadvertently got my master's in How To Take Care of Everybody Except Yourself and then a Ph.D. in How to Pretend Like You Don't Mind. But I do mind.””

Terry McMillan

About This Quote

Source Interview: Author interview, 2015, null

Balancing many roles leads to neglecting self‑care, despite mastering care for others.

In simple terms: Too many jobs, not enough self‑care.

Key Takeaway

Prioritize your own needs.

Themes

self‑care identity overextension

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

advice personal narrative

When to use this quote

  • family life
  • career changes
  • personal health
  • boundaries
  • self‑reflection

Key Concepts

role overload self‑neglect caregiver syndrome

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can you set boundaries without guilt?
  • What self‑care habit can you start today?
A Different Perspective

Self‑care is essential despite external demands.

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