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Child Quote by Teju Cole

“One morning, a child comes into the broad corridor of the house and greets me. I am shaving, unprepared for a guest. She calls me by name, and tells me who she is. We have never laid eyes on each other but we recognize each other immediately: first cousins. She was born after I left home, the last…” quote by Teju Cole
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““One morning, a child comes into the broad corridor of the house and greets me. I am shaving, unprepared for a guest. She calls me by name, and tells me who she is. We have never laid eyes on each other but we recognize each other immediately: first cousins. She was born after I left home, the last daughter of my father’s younger brother and, until this moment, we have only been rumors to each other. But so quickly do we get to know each other that, soon, I cannot even remember a time when I did not know her. She moved so easily all I could think of was sunlight. We spend hours on the sofa watching television. She teaches me about all the new films and the biggest music stars. I have brought some chocolates and a knapsack for her, so we almost have a fair exchange. I am awed by her silences and excited speech, her darkness, her self-possession. The completeness of a child is the most fragile and most powerful thing in the world. A child’s confidence is the world’s wonder.””

Teju Cole

About This Quote

Source Essay: “The Child’s Confidence,” 2015

A chance encounter with a distant cousin, a child, reveals the profound, fragile power of youthful confidence and connection.

In simple terms: Meeting a child cousin shows how powerful simple confidence can be.

Key Takeaway

Value and learn from the pure confidence of children.

Themes

family connection confidence growth

Mood

warm reflective inspirational

Type

essay personal observational

When to use this quote

  • family reunion
  • first meeting
  • cultural exchange
  • personal growth

Key Concepts

psychology social bonding

Questions to Reflect On

  • How does a child's confidence affect you?
  • What can adults learn from childlike openness?
A Different Perspective

Child’s confidence may mask deeper complexities.

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