Aunts and uncles Quote by William H. Gass
““We do not converse. She visits me to talk. My task to murmur. She talks about her grandsons, her daughter who lives in Delphi, her sister or her husband - both gone - obscure friends - dead - obscurer aunts and uncles - lost - ancient neighbors, members of her church or of her clubs - passed or passing on; and in this way she brings the ends of her life together with a terrifying rush: she is a girl, a wife, a mother, widow, all at once. All at once - appalling - but I believe it; I wince in expectation of the clap. Her talk's a fence - shade drawn, window fastened, door that's locked - for no one dies taking tea in a kitchen; and as her years compress and begin to jumble, I really believe in the brevity of life; I sweat in my wonder; death is the dog down the street, the angry gander, bedroom spider, goblin who's come to get her; and it occurs to me that in my listening posture I'm the boy who suffered the winds of my grandfather with an exactly similar politeness, that I am, right now, all my ages, out in elbows, as angular as badly stacekd cards. Thus was I, when I loved you, every man I could be, youth and child - far from enough - and you, so strangely ambiguous a being, met me, h eart for spade, play after play, the whole run of our suits.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: The Tunnel by William H. Gass, 1995
A narrator observes a woman’s rambling stories, seeing them as a tapestry of life’s stages and confronting mortality’s fleeting nature.
In simple terms: She shares life fragments, prompting thoughts on death and identity.
Listen deeply to uncover shared humanity.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- family gatherings
- elderly conversations
- life review
- grief processing
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What does listening reveal about our own life stages?
- How does storytelling shape our perception of death?
The monologue may obscure rather than clarify meaning, risking misinterpretation.