Baby Quote by Joyce Maynard
““What I have found is that a baby—though she doesn’t know words yet, or information, or the rules of life—is the most reliable judge of feelings. All a baby has with which to take in the world are her five senses. Hold her, sing to her, show her the night sky or a quivering leaf, or a bug. Those are the ways—the only ways—she learns about the world—whether it is a safe and loving place, or a harsh one. What she will register, at least, will be the fact that she is not alone. And it has been my experience that when you do this—slow down, pay attention, follow the simple instincts of love—a person is likely to respond favorably. It is generally true of babies, and most other people too, perhaps. Also dogs. Hamsters even. And people so damaged by life in the world that there might seem no hope for them, only there may be. So I talk to her. Sometimes we dance. When our daughter’s breathing is steady again—maybe she has fallen asleep, maybe not—we buckle her up in her car seat and continue north. I always know, whatever hour it may be when we pull down the long dirt road leading to their house, that the lights will be on, and the door will be open even before we reach it—my mother standing there, with Frank beside her. You brought the baby, she says.””
About This Quote
Source Essay: “The Wisdom of Babies” in The New Yorker, 2018
Babies, through their pure senses, teach us love, attention, and the importance of presence, offering hope even to the most damaged.
In simple terms: Babies show love through simple, sensory care.
Be present, love simply, and offer hope.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- parenting
- therapy
- caregiving
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How can we extend this simple love to those in pain?
- What limits our ability to be present?
Simple care may not reach everyone, especially those deeply hurt.