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“There is something so sad about going online and seeing almost everyone shouting ‘Notice me, notice me!’ Which is such a human desire—to be acknowledged. But me responding to that with some sort of ‘You’re noticed, you’re seen’ only perpetuates the loneliness. Because I’m not seeing you; I’m not…” quote by Taylor Schilling
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“There is something so sad about going online and seeing almost everyone shouting ‘Notice me, notice me!’ Which is such a human desire—to be acknowledged. But me responding to that with some sort of ‘You’re noticed, you’re seen’ only perpetuates the loneliness. Because I’m not seeing you; I’m not noticing you. And whoever you are, you so deserve to be noticed and valued. I feel lucky to have not grown up with the Internet because it forced me to get out, struggle and be so messy.”

Taylor Schilling

About This Quote

Source Interview: Podcast “The Longest Shortest Time”, 2018

People crave acknowledgment online, yet superficial validation deepens isolation; genuine recognition requires true attention and care.

In simple terms: Online praise can increase loneliness.

Key Takeaway

Give authentic attention, not empty affirmation.

Themes

loneliness validation authenticity digital culture

Mood

reflective empathetic

Type

advice philosophical

When to use this quote

  • online communities
  • friendships
  • mental health support
  • social media use

Key Concepts

psychology social media dynamics human need

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can we foster genuine connection online?
  • What does true acknowledgment look like?
A Different Perspective

Superficial acknowledgment may feel rewarding but fails to meet deeper relational needs.

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