Books Quote by Tarryn Fisher
““No one wants to carry someone when they’re heavy from life. I read a book about that once. A bunch of drivel about two people who kept coming back to each other. The lead male says that to the girl he keeps letting get away. I had to put the book down. No one wants to carry someone when they’re heavy from life. It’s a concept smart authors feed to their readers. It’s slow poison; you make them believe it’s real, and it keeps them coming back for more. Love is cocaine.””
About This Quote
Source Novel: “The Love Paradox”, 2021
Love can become a burdensome dependency, portrayed as addictive and destructive, warning against romanticizing unhealthy dynamics.
In simple terms: Love can feel like a harmful addiction.
Recognize and avoid toxic dependence.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- romantic relationships
- self‑reflection
- therapy sessions
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- Do you see patterns of codependency?
- How can you foster healthier love?
Romanticizing pain can normalize abuse.