Head Quote by Tanni Grey-Thompson
“I've lost track of the amount of time I've been spoken down to, literally patted on the head.”
About This Quote
Source Interview: BBC Sport, 2021
Repeated condescension erodes self‑esteem and agency, making the speaker feel infantilized.
In simple terms: Being talked down hurts confidence.
Assert boundaries against patronizing behavior.
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When to use this quote
- workplace meetings
- family gatherings
- public speaking
- customer service
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- How do you respond when you feel spoken down to?
- What strategies protect your confidence?
Patronizing remarks can be subtle, making them hard to confront.