Reply Quote by Suzanne Finnamore
““People are suppose to return response cards, but many of them haven't. These are people I naturally assumed would be thrilled and would reply immediately. Now I have to call them and ask them about it, and I have to be nice and not say what I would like to say. "Hello? I'm sorry to bother you, but is it too much fucking trouble to send that little card back? I put a stamp on it. But maybe you need me to come over to your house and carry you to the mailbox." In light of these developments, there ought to be a way to uninvite people who are disturbing me.””
About This Quote
The speaker feels frustrated that people ignore response cards, forcing polite follow‑ups that feel burdensome, and wishes for a way to stop bothering disruptive individuals.
In simple terms: People ignore cards, causing annoying follow‑ups.
Key Takeaway
Set clear expectations or automate reminders.
Themes
communication
frustration
politeness
boundaries
Mood
irritated
hopeful
Type
advice
reflective
When to use this quote
- event planning
- mailing campaigns
- customer service
- personal relationships
Key Concepts
social etiquette
reciprocity
assertiveness
Questions to Reflect On
- How can you make response requests less intrusive?
- What boundaries can you set without alienating others?
A Different Perspective
Not all non‑responses are intentional; some may be due to oversight.
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