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Behavior Quote by Susan Forward

“It is behavior, not words, that has the greatest impact on a child. When a mother tells her daughter not to allow a man to control her or abuse her and then models the opposite in her own relationship with her husband, the girl will respond only to the behavioral message, not the verbal one.” quote by Susan Forward
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““It is behavior, not words, that has the greatest impact on a child. When a mother tells her daughter not to allow a man to control her or abuse her and then models the opposite in her own relationship with her husband, the girl will respond only to the behavioral message, not the verbal one.””

Susan Forward

About This Quote

Source Book: “Toxic Parents”, 1992, Susan Forward

Children learn behavior from parental actions more than verbal advice.

In simple terms: Actions teach children more than words.

Key Takeaway

Model the behavior you want to see.

Themes

parenting behavioral modeling child development

Mood

concerned empathetic

Type

educational advisory

When to use this quote

  • parenting workshops
  • therapy sessions
  • education programs

Key Concepts

social learning theory family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What behaviors do you model?
  • How can you align words and actions?
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