Human connection Quote by Sue Johnson
““certain incidents do more than just touch our raw spots or “hurt our feelings.” They injure us so deeply that they overturn our world. They are relationship traumas. In the dictionary a trauma is defined as a wound that plunges us into fear and helplessness, that challenges all our assumptions of predictability and control. Traumatic wounds are especially severe, observes Judith Herman, professor of psychiatry at Harvard Medical School, when they involve a “violation of human connection.” Indeed, there is no greater trauma than to be wounded by the very people we count on to support and protect us.””
About This Quote
Intense relational betrayals cause deep psychological wounds that disrupt our sense of safety and control, especially when inflicted by trusted loved ones.
In simple terms: Betrayal by close people creates profound trauma.
Key Takeaway
Protect and nurture healthy connections.
Themes
trauma
relationships
trust
psychology
vulnerability
Mood
empathetic
reflective
Type
therapeutic
supportive
When to use this quote
- counseling
- personal relationships
- conflict resolution
- mental health care
Key Concepts
attachment theory
emotional injury
interpersonal dynamics
Questions to Reflect On
- What boundaries can safeguard emotional well‑being?
- How can we repair trust after deep betrayal?
A Different Perspective
Healing may require confronting painful truths and rebuilding trust, which is challenging.
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