Attention Quote by Stephanie Coontz
“Deciding together to have a child and sharing in child-rearing do not immunize a marriage. Indeed, collaborative couples can face other problems. They often embark on such an intense style of parenting that they end up paying less attention to each other.”
About This Quote
Source Book: Marriage, A History by Stephanie Coontz, 2005
Shared parenting can strain a marriage because couples may neglect each other while focusing intensely on child-rearing.
In simple terms: Intensive parenting can reduce spousal attention.
Key Takeaway
Balance child care with nurturing the partnership.
Themes
marriage
parenting
balance
Mood
thoughtful
concerned
Type
advice
analytical
When to use this quote
- new parents
- marriage therapy
- family planning
Key Concepts
relationship dynamics
family systems
Questions to Reflect On
- How can couples maintain connection while parenting?
- What boundaries protect marital intimacy?
A Different Perspective
Intense focus on children may overlook personal needs.