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Love Quote by Sheldon Vanauken

“When we first fell in love in the dead of winter, we said, "If we aren't more in love in lilactime, we shall be finished." But we were more in love: for love must grow or die.” quote by Sheldon Vanauken
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““When we first fell in love in the dead of winter, we said, "If we aren't more in love in lilactime, we shall be finished." But we were more in love: for love must grow or die.””

Sheldon Vanauken

About This Quote

Source Book: The Other Side of Love, 1975

Love must be nurtured continuously; without growth it fades, especially in challenging times.

In simple terms: Love needs ongoing care or it dies.

Key Takeaway

Invest in deepening love regularly.

Themes

love growth commitment vulnerability

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • marriage
  • long‑term partnership
  • seasonal hardships

Key Concepts

relationship dynamics emotional resilience

Questions to Reflect On

  • What actions can sustain love in winter?
  • How do you recognize love's stagnation?
A Different Perspective

Assumes love can be measured by intensity alone.

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