Love Quote by Sheldon Vanauken
““When we first fell in love in the dead of winter, we said, "If we aren't more in love in lilactime, we shall be finished." But we were more in love: for love must grow or die.””
About This Quote
Source Book: The Other Side of Love, 1975
Love must be nurtured continuously; without growth it fades, especially in challenging times.
In simple terms: Love needs ongoing care or it dies.
Invest in deepening love regularly.
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- marriage
- long‑term partnership
- seasonal hardships
Key Concepts
Questions to Reflect On
- What actions can sustain love in winter?
- How do you recognize love's stagnation?
Assumes love can be measured by intensity alone.