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Children Quote by Sheldon B. Kopp

“Of course, one other hypothetical alternative would have been for the child to decide that since she was fine the way she was, there must have been something terribly wrong with her parents. But children need at least the continuing hope that their parents may come to love them. To decide that…” quote by Sheldon B. Kopp
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““Of course, one other hypothetical alternative would have been for the child to decide that since she was fine the way she was, there must have been something terribly wrong with her parents. But children need at least the continuing hope that their parents may come to love them. To decide that these crazy parents will never love her, no matter what she does, no matter whom she becomes, would leave a child buried in a depth of despair in which she would surely suffocate and die. (86)””

Sheldon B. Kopp

About This Quote

Source Novel: Unnamed Fiction, 2020

Children need hope that parents can love them; losing that hope leads to despair.

In simple terms: Kids need love hope; without it they suffer.

Key Takeaway

Foster loving relationships and maintain hope for children.

Themes

parenthood hope psychology child development

Mood

empathetic somber

Type

psychological emotional

When to use this quote

  • parenting
  • counseling
  • education
  • mental health support

Key Concepts

attachment theory emotional resilience family dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • How can caregivers nurture hope without false promises?
  • What signs indicate a child is losing hope?
A Different Perspective

Children may misinterpret parental actions, causing lasting trauma.

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