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Narcissist Quote by Shahida Arabi

“Triangulation is the way the narcissist maintains control and keeps you in check — you’re so busy competing for his or her attention that you’re less likely to be focusing on the red flags within the relationship or looking for ways to get out of the relationship.” quote by Shahida Arabi
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““Triangulation is the way the narcissist maintains control and keeps you in check — you’re so busy competing for his or her attention that you’re less likely to be focusing on the red flags within the relationship or looking for ways to get out of the relationship.””

Shahida Arabi

About This Quote

Source Book: Narcissistic Relationships, 2021

Narcissists use triangulation to keep partners distracted and control the relationship.

In simple terms: Control through competition for attention, masking red flags.

Key Takeaway

Recognize and break the triangulation cycle.

Themes

relationships control psychology manipulation

Mood

reflective warning

Type

psychological advisory

When to use this quote

  • dating
  • therapy
  • self‑help workshops

Key Concepts

narcissism triangulation attention dynamics

Questions to Reflect On

  • What signs indicate triangulation?
  • How can one regain autonomy?
A Different Perspective

Victims may not see the pattern until deep involvement.

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