Choose Quote by Sarah Manguso
““Choose one: chronic disappointment or lowering your expectations to the point where nothing can disappoint you. But consider also that you might miss feeling disappointed.””
About This Quote
Choosing between constant disappointment and low expectations creates a trade‑off: avoiding pain may also dull the capacity to feel any emotion deeply.
In simple terms: Low expectations protect from hurt but can numb joy.
Key Takeaway
Balance realistic hopes with openness to feeling.
Themes
expectations
disappointment
emotional risk
balance
resilience
Mood
thoughtful
introspective
Type
philosophical
motivational
When to use this quote
- relationships
- career planning
- personal growth
- mental health
Key Concepts
psychology
risk management
emotional intelligence
Questions to Reflect On
- Are you sacrificing depth for safety?
- What level of expectation feels authentic?
A Different Perspective
Too low expectations can lead to apathy; too high can cause chronic pain.
