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“Family,”_ _ _“They’re the people in your life you don’t get to pick. The ones that are given to you, as opposed to those you get to choose.” quote by Sarah Dessen
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““Family,”_ _ _“They’re the people in your life you don’t get to pick. The ones that are given to you, as opposed to those you get to choose.””

Sarah Dessen

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Source Novel: The Truth About Forever, Sarah Dessen, 2009

Family consists of people given to us, not chosen, shaping our lives inevitably.

In simple terms: Family is given, not chosen, and influences us.

Key Takeaway

Appreciate chosen family bonds.

Themes

family relationships choice

Mood

thoughtful empathetic

Type

reflective emotional

When to use this quote

  • adoption
  • blended families
  • friend groups

Key Concepts

family dynamics social support personal growth

Questions to Reflect On

  • What family relationships feel chosen?
  • How do you honor non‑chosen family?
A Different Perspective

Family ties can be strained despite being chosen.

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