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Blood relation Quote by Sarah Dessen

“What is family? They were the people who claimed you. In good, in bad, in parts or in whole, they were the ones who showed up, who stayed in there, regardless. It wasn't just about blood relations or shared chromosomes, but something wider, bigger. We had many families over time. Our family of…” quote by Sarah Dessen
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““What is family? They were the people who claimed you. In good, in bad, in parts or in whole, they were the ones who showed up, who stayed in there, regardless. It wasn't just about blood relations or shared chromosomes, but something wider, bigger. We had many families over time. Our family of origin, the family we created, and the groups you moved through while all of this was happening: friends, lovers, sometimes even strangers. None of them perfect, and we couldn't expect them to be. You can't make any one person your world. The trick was to take what each could give you and build your world from it.””

Sarah Dessen

About This Quote

Family is defined by chosen bonds and mutual support, not just genetics; we build our world from many relationships.

In simple terms: Family is about chosen, supportive connections.

Key Takeaway

Value and nurture diverse supportive relationships.

Themes

relationships chosen family support

Mood

reflective hopeful

Type

philosophical inspirational

When to use this quote

  • friendships
  • romantic partnerships
  • mentor relationships
  • support groups

Key Concepts

social bonds emotional resilience community building

Questions to Reflect On

  • Who are the people that consistently support you?
  • How do you balance expectations with reality in relationships?
A Different Perspective

Idealizing family can overlook inevitable conflicts and imperfections.

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