First meet Quote by Sarah Chergui
““An inevitable meeting with persons takes many forms. In the course of the first meeting, people oblige themselves to honor each other morally. This is practised through exhibiting an elaborate correctness of manner. Nevertheless, the first meeting comes to be at a later time something familiar. At this moment, Familiarity between people aims at concealing improperness and revealing righteousness. People; at last, deny their first conduct, that is, they tend to be different altogether. And, the meeting which was once inescapable is now eluded.””
About This Quote
First encounters are governed by formal politeness, which later masks flaws and projects righteousness, leading to a denial of initial behavior.
In simple terms: Politeness hides flaws
First impressions evolve
Themes
Mood
Type
When to use this quote
- networking event
- first date
- job interview
Key Concepts
Practical Applications
- social training
- conflict resolution
Questions to Reflect On
- Why do we conceal imperfections after first meetings?
- Can authenticity be maintained over time?